Premature ejaculation means regularly ejaculating sooner than you or your partner would like, with little sense of control, and being troubled by it. The medical definition refers to ejaculation within about 1 minute of penetration when it has been lifelong, or a clear drop to around 3 minutes or less when it is acquired.
It is very common and nothing to be ashamed of. Occasional quick ejaculation is normal and needs no treatment. Persistent cases respond well to a combination of behavioural techniques, medicines and, where relevant, treatment of an underlying cause.
Symptoms
- Ejaculation that nearly always happens within a minute or so of penetration, or before it
- Inability to delay ejaculation when you try
- Frustration, embarrassment or avoidance of intimacy
- Tension in the relationship
- In the acquired form, a recent change, often together with weaker erections
Causes and risk factors
Lifelong premature ejaculation is thought to reflect an inborn difference in how serotonin signalling in the brain and spinal cord sets the ejaculation reflex, and it is partly hereditary. Acquired premature ejaculation has identifiable triggers: erectile dysfunction, which makes men rush, prostatitis, an overactive thyroid, performance anxiety, relationship difficulties, and withdrawal from some medicines or drugs. Infrequent sex and a new partner shorten the time in many men without any disorder being present.
How it is diagnosed
- Sexual and medical history: The main diagnostic tool: when it began, the estimated time, the degree of control, erections and the effect on you and your partner.
- Examination: A brief check of the genitals and, where symptoms suggest it, the prostate.
- Targeted blood tests: Thyroid function, testosterone and glucose only when the history points that way. No scan or special test is needed.
Treatment options
- Behavioural techniques: Stop-start and squeeze methods, pelvic floor training and changes in pace. They need practice and work better with a partner involved.
- Psychosexual therapy: Useful for anxiety and relationship factors, and it improves the results of medication.
- Dapoxetine on demand: A short-acting SSRI taken 1 to 3 hours before sex. It typically lengthens the time two to three fold. Nausea, dizziness and headache are the usual side effects.
- Daily SSRIs or clomipramine: Paroxetine, sertraline and similar medicines used off-label. They are effective but take 1 to 2 weeks to work and should not be stopped abruptly.
- Local anaesthetic spray or cream: Lidocaine and prilocaine applied 5 to 15 minutes beforehand, then wiped off or used with a condom to avoid numbing the partner.
- Treating erectile dysfunction first: A PDE5 inhibitor often resolves acquired cases that are linked to weak erections.
- Surgery and fillers: Cutting the nerves of the penis or injecting filler into the glans is not recommended by urological guidelines, since it risks permanent loss of sensation.
When it is urgent
Premature ejaculation is never an emergency. Seek prompt local care for a painful erection lasting more than 4 hours, or for fever with pain in the pelvis or when passing urine, which suggests acute prostatitis.
Travelling to Türkiye for treatment
There is no good reason to travel for this. The effective treatments are tablets, sprays and counselling, which any urologist or sexual medicine doctor can provide, and several can be managed by video consultation. If you are in Istanbul for other care, a confidential urology appointment can be added. Be cautious about clinics that advertise permanent surgical cures.
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What is a normal time?
Studies with stopwatches show an average of about 5 to 6 minutes from penetration, with a very wide normal range.
Is there a permanent cure?
Lifelong cases are usually managed, not cured, and treatment works for as long as it is used. Acquired cases often resolve once the cause is treated.
Do delay sprays affect my partner?
They can cause numbness if they transfer. Wiping off the excess or using a condom prevents this.
Are the tablets safe in the long term?
SSRIs have a long safety record. Reduced libido or mood changes can occur and should be discussed with the prescriber.